Apr 18

Crazy Making

The Kansas City Star had an article the other day about the Jet Blue pilot who melted down. While I’m not all that interested in that particular story, what did catch my eye was the list of the “most stressful jobs” accompanying the article. Sitting at number six was “event coordinator.”

“Wait a minute,” I hear you say, “I thought you said you’re a women’s center director.” Well, yes, I am, but the fact is that women’s center directors are also event planners (and counselors, teachers, accountants, etc. You name it, we probably do it).

And right now we are two days away from a huge event (the Women’s Center 40th Anniversary Gala — you might have heard me mention it a couple of times :-) Now, I am (if I say so myself) good with details, so in terms of planning, our events tend to be organized with the precision of an army invasion (seriously — I could so easily figure out how to invade a country if I wanted to). So that’s all good and under control. What makes me crazy then, you ask? It’s the people with their questions — can I change my guest list? Who else is coming? What will there be to eat? What should we wear? Etc., etc.

Many of them are questions that have already been answered, some multiple times. I try to be patient, but I’m really not good at dealing with questions — I tend to want to just tell folks to a) read the damn email or b) go Google it. Neither of which are acceptable answers. So instead, I smile, do an inward eye roll, and answer the question (again). But I find that doing so makes me stressed out and cranky — not an ideal state. It usually passes in time to enjoy the event, but I hate the last couple of days leading up to one. So, I ask y’all — if you plan events, how do you relax during the lead up and keep others from making you crazy? Would love to hear any and all tips!

Edited to add: I am not saying folks shouldn’t have questions. I understand that they will. I also understand that not everyone has all the details of my events as present in their heads as I do. I get all of that. I really do. It’s just a cruel irony of fate that being asked questions makes me nuts (it’s one of the reasons I don’t have children. I simply could NOT stand the questions) and yet I work in a job where I am constantly asked questions. Most of the time I just deal with it, but when it’s super hectic it stresses me out. Thus the endless search for coping strategies.

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Apr 03

Day of Higher Ed: One Day in the Life of a Women’s Center Director

As pretty much everyone in higher education knows by now, the Washington Post published a terrible (as in full of nonsense and lies) op-ed piece a week or so ago about how “lazy” university faculty are and how little work they do (I am not linking to it because it has had enough traffic. It’s easy enough to find if you want to read it). In response, Lee Skallerup put out a call to make yesterday (April 2) a “#dayofhighered,” requesting that folks document their day in the form of tweets, blogs, etc. in order to show that, in fact, we do work plenty hard in higher ed.

While I am not faculty, I joined other staff like Kristen Abell and Higheredmaven to document a day in the life of a staff member. After all, as Higheredmaven points out:

the assaults on my existence have been just as harsh and brutal over the past few years of college cost scrutiny as they have for faculty members. Dubbed “administrative bloat,” college and university staff have been blamed for everything from out-of-control tuition hikes to pervasive and systemic inefficiencies

So, yesterday, I kept a time log of my day — but first, a few introductory notes:

  • Currently I hold a full-time position as director of the UMKC Women’s Center, a part-time position as acting director of the Women’s & Gender Studies Program, and teach two classes — one upper-level WGS course (“Queer in the City”) and one second-semester German language class. My days thus tend to be rather full indeed.
  • For some reason that I do not understand (but am extremely grateful for), I have had fewer meetings than usual this semester and yesterday was no exception with only one meeting scheduled (today, on the other hand, I’m looking at a full day of meetings).
  • I also currently serve as co-editor for the Student Affairs Women Talk Tech blog and it is my week to edit and publish our bloggers’ posts.
  • Yes, I consider Facebook, Twitter, and blogging work. Both the Center and Program I direct use social media extensively to communicate and engage our constituents, while the SAWTT blog contributes to the profession by highlighting the work being done by women in student affairs. Social media is also where I build my professional network and get a lot of my professional development. Yesterday was actually a light day for me as I did not have time to post on the Women’s Center Facebook page or check to see if the students were posting properly.
Without further ado, then, here is my day on Monday: April 2:
  • 5:45 a.m. Get up, feed cats, make coffee (as is evident from yesterday’s tweets, academia would come to a screeching halt without coffee).
  • 5:45 –  6:30 a.m. Check email, Facebook, Twitter, start writing this blog post, look at the news in the Chronicle & IHE, finish up some grading, edit and publish post on Student Affairs Women Talk Tech.
  • 6:30 – 7 a.m. Take walk (if exercise doesn’t happen at the beginning of the day, it usually doesn’t happen at all. Unfortunately there are more days without exercise than with). When possible, I much prefer a neighborhood walk over the gym.
  • 7 – 8 a.m. Get ready for work, eat breakfast.
  • 8 a.m. Head to the office.
  • 8 – 9 a.m. Work on agenda for today’s staff meeting.
  • 9 – 10 a.m. Email, prioritize task list for today, sort out payments for our upcoming 40th Anniversary Gala. Check with assistant director about a program we are working on.
  • 10 – 10:50 a.m. Teach Queer in the City class.
  • 10:50 – 11:30 am. Work on putting out mini fire that’s come up with a vendor for the Gala. This is one of those unscheduled and unexpected things that throws off my day a bit and makes me late for the staff meeting.
  • 11:35 a.m. – 12:05 p.m. Women’s Center staff meeting, at which we divvy up final tasks for upcoming events.
  • 12 – 1 p.m. Lunch with my husband (who is a faculty member at the same institution) in my office while continuing to deal with vendor / contract issue. I also get a “pop-in” visit from a student and spend part of my lunch advising her on what classes she can take this summer to fulfill the WGS minor requirements.
  • 1 – 1:50 p.m. A little class prep, more email, catch up with staff member who was out of the office last week.
  • 1:50 – 2:15 p.m. Revise and print interview questions for applicants to the Sue Shear 21st-Century Leadership Academy, for interviews that will be held later this week. Also send email recruiting staff members to attend the Gala as guests of the UMKC Staff Council (on which I serve as President-Elect).
  • 2:15 – 3:30 p.m. Schedule a meeting and look over materials to prepare for student staff training. Work on check in list for the upcoming Gala.
  • 3:30 –  4 p.m. Send out a couple of emails and then gather my materials before walking over to the training room.
  • 4 – 5 p.m.Train women’s center student staff on the new Facebook timeline for pages.
  • 5 – 5:30 p.m.  Head back to office, gather course materials, respond to a couple of emails that came in while I was doing the training.
  • 5:30 – 7:35 p.m. Teach German class.
  • 7:35 – 10:30 p.m. Come home, help prepare dinner, eat, catch up on blog reading, peruse the #dayofhighered tweets, check email and respond to a few, make a frozen custard run (it was HOT yesterday!), and read some of Mockingjay in preparation for our Hunger Games book discussion to be held on Wednesday. Consider finishing up and publishing this blog post, but was too tired and so put it off until this morning.

There you have it — a fairly typical day. Doing the time log was an interesting experiment for me and I noticed a couple of things:

  • Email dominates my day in a way that’s not great. I knew that before, of course, but it wasn’t until writing this down that I really noticed it. After this, I plan to try to find ways to change that — what will be most difficult there is changing other people’s expectations in terms of response time.
  • Recording my day may have made me a bit conscious of being sure not to goof off, but given the amount of work that has to be done in a day (and yesterday was typical), there isn’t a lot of time for goofing off anyway.
  • While I try to plan my days pretty carefully, there are any number of things that can happen to throw them off like yesterday’s unscheduled student visit and mini vendor crisis. The result of those was that a couple of items on my to-do did not get done. Today I will have to figure out where to reschedule those in order to get them finished this week.
  • I also noticed that I make a lot of decisions (small and large) over the course of the day. Should I buy a computer program or use the remote labs version? How often should the students update the Facebook cover photo? Should I bring in the contracts office to deal with the vendor issue? Etc., etc. Again, I think I knew that, but it was only through writing it out that the extent became clear.

Finally, I want to note that it seems obvious (to me, at least), that I do indeed work hard and produce value for my institution. Over the course of a day, I interact (both virtually and in person) with students, staff, faculty, and community members in a variety of ways that help make my institution a better place. I’m proud of the work I and my colleagues (locally, nationally, and globally) do in higher education and wish more could see the value in what we do.

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/04/03/day-of-higher-ed-one-day-in-the-life-of-a-womens-center-director/

Mar 18

What I’ve Been Up To

As I mentioned yesterday, I haven’t posted much lately. Partly because I haven’t much felt like writing and partly because I’ve spent the last few weeks moonlighting as a video producer for the UMKC Women’s Center 40th Anniversary. Check out one of the final products:

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Mar 17

Shaking the Research Blahs

So I haven’t posted in forever (last one was February 7 and before that, January 22). Partly because life has been very “full” the last two months, but also partly because I don’t really have anything to say. Currently, I’m in one of those ruts in which we all find ourselves from time to time. Courses are running smoothly, work is busy but not particularly challenging at the moment, and I’m in between research projects.

I think it’s the last that’s making me a little blah and out of sorts. A student came by during office hours the other day and asked, “what are researching now?” “Nothing, really.” She expressed disbelief — “surely you must have something.” But it’s true — I really don’t have a big project at the moment — and haven’t since finishing the book last November. I’ve got a bunch of little projects going (the SA Women Talk Tech blog, #femlead chat, my altac stuff), but nothing that qualifies as a “real” research project. And much to my surprise, I’m discovering that that makes me feel rather at loose ends — as if I don’t quite know what to do with myself. I have plenty to keep me occupied, but the lack of a deep project makes me feel dissatisfied. So I guess I am a research after all. Who knew? Now if only I could figure out what to do next and get started on it. Suggestions most welcome!

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/03/17/shaking-the-research-blahs/

Feb 07

Yikes! It’s February?!? Well, then, Happy V-Day

It’s been a while since I’ve posted as events and classes have bee keeping my days full. One of the events we’ve been working on at the Women’s Center is V-Day. Our campus newspaper interviewed me about our upcoming production of the Vagina Monologues. Check it out below — and I hope to get to a real post soon.

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Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/02/07/yikes-its-february-well-then-happy-v-day/

Jan 22

How You Leave Matters Too

For a lot of folks in higher education, spring means job searching. While I’ve seen a lot of good advice on how to conduct a job search (see, for example, Ann Marie Klotz’s recent post or Sean Grube’s series of posts), I haven’t come across a lot talking about how to leave your current position. For a variety of reasons (some good, some not-so-good), we’ve had a fair amount of turnover in my department since last spring — so here is my list of things you should and shouldn’t do when leaving a job.

Do

  • Give a reasonable amount of notice. The standard is two weeks, but it can be good to give more, especially if you’re willing to help train your replacement.
  • Leave your office in neat, organized condition (but not so cleaned out that the folks left behind can’t find any evidence of the work you did). Communicate the status of any open projects to your supervisor and be sure to leave detailed notes / binders for your replacement.
  • Remember that how you leave is just as important (if not more so) as how you started and performed while in the position. While your mind may be moving ahead to your new position, stay as engaged as possible in your current job. Your supervisors will notice if you are checked out early — do you want that to be their final impression of you?

Don’t

  • Resist the temptation (however strong) to be “honest” about your reasons for leaving if that includes “you expect us to work too hard.” Future employers may well call your current supervisors for a reference — and the questions could include reason for leaving. Do you think a future employer wants to hire someone who doesn’t like to work hard?
  • Don’t tell your employer that you’re leaving over the phone or via email. It’s rude. Do it in person. Yes, I know it’s hard. So is life.
  • Dump a bunch of unfinished work on your co-workers because you no longer feel like doing it. Finish as much as you can and (as noted above) leave clear instructions for the rest. Someday they could be in a position to hire you for another job. You want them to remember you in a good way.

These are just a few tips — the overarching moral is to leave gracefully and to remember that your final impression is a lasting one, so make it count. What other tips do you have for how to leave a job? Leave your tips in the comments!

[Photo Credit: Flickr User hellojenuine, Creative Commons license]

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/01/22/how-you-leave-matters-too/

Jan 19

Two Weeks In

We are just finishing up the second week of the semester and things have been a bit too crazy for me to keep up here. My students have started blogging, however, and they are smart, funny, and awesome, so I suggest you go check them out: http://www.brendabethman.com/queercity/

I’ll be back next week with a real post.

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/01/19/two-weeks-in/

Jan 15

No Plan B?

I have to agree with the poster on Twitter who said that this video is harmed by its ranty style. Still, all good points concerning the #alt-ac debate and the culture of many humanities Ph.D. programs.

There will be no Plan B for the Humanities
by: cynicgirl82

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/01/15/no-plan-b/

Jan 10

Germanists, Stop Rearranging the Deck Chairs

Last week I attended the Modern Language Association’s Annual Convention in Seattle. As in previous years, there were many sessions and much talk about the dismal state of the job market for language and literature Ph.D.’s. A rather pithy tweet summed up most of the discussion:

Summary of #MLA12: Rearranging deck chairs on Titanic no longer enough. But if we pull together, we can maybe shift this boat.
@cjprender
Writing Life

Unfortunately, this is a message that many of my colleagues in German Studies did not get (and possibly other fields, but I didn’t attend their sessions). I attended the session on the Future of German Graduate Education, which was described as follows:

Roundtable on the place of German in tomorrow’s university. How are we training graduate students in German programs to adjust to a changed landscape and secure a place for German in the new pared-down humanities curricula? Panelists will discuss how their departments have adapted to the crisis in German, how graduate training incorporates cross- and interdisciplinary tracks, and what the place of literature is in the new “practical” curricula.

I had hoped that the session would address changes in the job market for Ph.D.’s in German Studies beyond a superficial tweaking of the curriculum (i.e., rearranging the deck chairs), and further, that the discussion would include conversation about nonteaching jobs, given that many current graduate students will NOT become members of the faculty (whether on the tenure track or as adjuncts). Unfortunately, the panelists did not address such concerns. Rather, they talked about how they’ve tweaked their curricula to be more interdisciplinary and how their students also teach subjects other than German. There was no talk of “altac” (as in alternative academic positions, e.g. nonteaching staff or administrative jobs within the academy. For definitions, see here, here, and here) jobs. In fact, one panelist stated that they do not train graduate students for those types of jobs because the students prefer to receive a “traditional” graduate education. And you know, that may be true, but as someone who focused on Modern German Studies, I didn’t particularly want to learn Middle High German, Old Norse, or take a medieval literature course, but I did because those were the things my department deemed important enough to be required (and truth be told, at the end of the day, I was glad I took them. But I would not have if they hadn’t been requirements). Departments could, if they wanted, require some kind of admin internship or other training. My point here being that faculty and graduate program directors determine all the time that things that graduate students are not clamoring for should nonetheless be in their curricula. To me, then, saying “we don’t offer it because it’s not what graduate students want” is a false argument. Another panelist admitted to not knowing anything about alternative careers:

With 5 min left they admit that they don't actually know what these jobs are bc they have never been outside academia. #mla12 #s545
@bitterphd
Elizabeth Byers

An audience member referred to the continuing acceptance of graduate students into programs designed to train folks for jobs that exist only in very low numbers “morally reprehensible.” I would add that it is also morally suspect to continue to ignore the fact that humanities Ph.D.’s can and do have careers outside of the tenure track — and that their faculty and programs should know what those careers are and how to advise them. The MLA and its former President, German professor Russel Berman, are proposing changes that will help holders of Ph.D.’s in German Studies (and other languages) be prepared for the job market that exists, not the one we wish existed. I invite the rest of my colleagues in German Studies to join us.

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/01/10/germanists-stop-rearranging-the-deck-chairs/

Jan 01

How Did I Get Here?

Tomorrow is my 5th anniversary as the Director of the UMKC Women’s Center (hard to believe it’s been that long — talk about a blur!). Combine that with an upcoming MLA session on the Nonteaching Academic Job Search, and I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about how I ended up where I am now (it’s also got me pondering my answer to Liana Silva’s “Am I an Academic?” question — look for that coming soon). So how did I get here? “Here” being my current combination of positions at UMKC: Director of the UMKC Women’s Center, Acting Director of the Women’s & Gender Studies Program, and Affiliated Faculty in German in the Department of Foreign Languages & Literatures.

I ended up here in a large part due to dumb luck — back in 2001, I was a Ph.D. student at UMass Amherst, working on my dissertation. My husband was finished and had held a series of visiting positions before he was offered a job at Texas A&M, starting in the fall of 2001 (both diehard Northeasterners, we had no idea what awaited us in Texas. But that’s a story for another day). I figured I could adjunct while finishing up my dissertation and then figure out what I was going to do with the rest of my life — at the time, I had no idea other than knowing that I didn’t want a tenure-track job. So, I wrote to the Women’s Studies Program at A&M to see if they had any adjunct positions. “No,” they said, “but we are about to open a Women’s Center and are looking to hire someone for that position.” Since I had also done Women’s Studies as part of my degree, that sounded interesting, despite the fact that I had NO idea what women’s centers do or what I would do as the coordinator of one.

Despite my ignorance, I applied, got the job, realized that I loved it, and here I am 10 years later, still working in a women’s center. I truly was lucky that A&M was willing to take a chance on someone who’d never worked in a center before (it also helped, I think, that the pool was not so great and they were looking for someone who could also teach). What really helped me, however (and this is my real point), was the assistantships I’d held at UMass working with the DEFA Film Library and a couple of NEH Summer Institutes because I was thus able to demonstrate that I had solid administrative skills. Without those positions, I simply would not have been a viable candidate. Equally important, none of my faculty mentors at UMass ever made me feel like a loser for choosing a different path (indeed, they encouraged me to do so). While other faculty might have questioned my choices (if I had a dollar for every time someone asked me if I planned to look for a “real” job after I finished the diss, I could take a nice little trip), they did not. It is hard to say just how much that meant to me — all I know is that I did not suffer from the debilitating sense of failure so many other academics have when deciding to follow a path other than the tenure-track.

Along the way, I managed to (finally!) finish my dissertation, turn it into a book, publish an article or two, present on things German and feminist, as well as teach German, women’s studies, and honors courses. It’s been a great “#alt-ac” path so far and I’m lucky to have been able to combine my love of disparte subjects and talents in both administration and teaching/research in my various roles. My wish for 2012 is that more Ph.D.’s are able to find alternative academic paths that are as fulfilling as mine.

Permanent link to this article: http://brendabethman.com/2012/01/01/how-did-i-get-here/

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